Hi,
Ok so I am not good with girls at all. Infact im pretty much socially retarded in almost all aspects.
I cannot identify whether a person likes me, and generally think everyone hates me.
I generally hate most people I meet, and then that reflects upon myself. So I am generally not happy at all at anytime....ever. I also don't ever go out, unless I really need to (food/work/business/events or when my only friend forces me to go out)
I just cant stand people or myself, I tried to bury myself in my work but that made things much much worse. I have a few friends (mostly in other parts of the world) and 0 girl friends (friends that are girls, not a gf) when I meet someone I always feel that I am either better than them or that I am not worthy (either way, I shouldn't care about status yet I do...)
I guess I am the worst people person sort of person (if that makes any sense to you)
Other than getting sad like this I generally am always apathetic.
All I want is to have someone that cares for me in a GF sort of way (I already know Im pathetic, so flame away if you want)
Thanks for your time, laters.
theMac
Fuck man... I'm rubbish with women too... I just get out to some events, Lans etc and get drunk with everyone! Believe me.... EVERYONE is in the same boat! Good luck...
famsy
Thanks dude, I appreciate it a lot.
sloppi
same here, but i'm not a retard :D
famsy
I don't have special needs. I am just socially retarded (as in I am not good with social scenes and am quite ignorant to certain social situations)
Portland
Haha I know how you feel man. Unfortunately your hermit ways are not easily changeable, and I wont attempt to in this short comment. All I can say is life is how you see it. If you think you'll fail miserably, you will. So try to always be yourself, don't be afraid to step out side of the box and say hell to the possible embarrassing outcomes. Once you do that, things will change or for better m8.
YATZY
Well i was kinda in the same position as you a couple of years back. But ive learnt a few things
1. Time teches you everything
2. Girls will come, as long as you dont rush it.
3. You ARE better then the others. Confidence is key!
Geepak
As YATZY says, confidence is the key. If you appear to be happy and confident, people around you will respond to that.
Just try walking down the street, with a slight smile, head up and feeling confident. You will notice a lot of people will look and smile or in a lot case, check you out (women mostly I hope!)
If you carry on feeling sorry for yourself, then you will always feel like shite. I know as I went through a pretty bad break up just over a year ago (3 year relationship and engaged) Took me a long time to stop feeling sorry for myself, thinking i'm nothing, etc.
SweepeR
Read this book: http://www.amazon(...)520273&sr=8-1
famsy
Thanks guys I appreciate it.
PatR.
confidence.cfg is your answer
Stepbro
yeah man just dont expect everything to drop in to place quick, good things come to those who wait. Ive met 1 girl who has taught me everything :D gl m8
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